Sometimes people forget that they are your friend

As a friend I do value friendship greatly and thus I tend to help and advice  my friends as long as I can.  Whenever they have problems even just using text I do respond and give them my views about their issues and problems.

But what is saddening is that sometimes when your view contradicts with theirs in the long run you end up losing that friend or you end up enemies.  Sometimes I do ask myself whether which is better: (1) To ignore a friend; (2) Just listen to him and share nothing; or (3) Give him/her an advice.

Well based on my experience I think I should be learning to listen and if asked maybe I could give some advise but I should be cautious on that because sometimes people forget that they are your friend and that is the main reason why you are giving such an advice.

I am sorry to loose friends… because for me it is part of my failure as a person.  But am happy still because there are friends that I know will stay through the end.

 

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